My Dad has Dementia

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Beth Malone, Dad, Dementia, Ted Talk

You never really think about this disease until you’re affected by it. My Dad was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia last year. As soon as I got the news, I retired from my job and drove home to spend as much time as I could with my Dad before he forgets who we are and who he is.

This video is about Beth’s Dad. I can relate to this because I’m experiencing it every day. Some days are good for Dad. He talks, he listens, and he understands what’s going on. Other days, and more of them lately, he stares out our living room window unaware of what’s going on.

My Mom and Dad are celebrating their 55th wedding anniversary this month and I can tell my Mom isn’t taking this too well. She gets mad at him, she gets frustrated, and all the rest. I can only imagine how horrible it is to see the man you love literally fall apart before your eyes.

If you have someone in your family that is suffering from this horrific condition, feel free to share here if you’re comfortable. If not, I get it.

All the best,

Dave

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Daily Ramblings – Happy Father’s Day!

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Dad, Father, Father's Day

Happy Father’s Day!

My Dad (pictured above on the left) raised three kids and took care of our family.

When I look at my life I recognize how hard it is to support a family. The endless hours of work, the constant worry, the stresses of day-to-day existence, coupled with a sprinkling of injuries, diseases, troubles, and all the rest.

Last year my Dad was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia. This is a type of Dementia that is caused by poor circulation (he was a smoker for more than 50 years). I retired early in December to spend my time with my Mom and Dad (both in their 70s) to make sure they had someone to take care of them and not miss any more time with them.

I never thought at the age of 53 that I’d be back home taking care of my folks, but here I am. It is truly a blessing to have the ability to spend time with the people that bore you, raised you, and supported you throughout your life. After a month or so of returning home, I realized how blessed this situation was. I get to wake up to my folks every day, hang out with them, and enjoy them. I’ve missed a lot of years and do not want to miss anymore.

My move back home has also reduced the stress on my sister, who was the only sibling in Michigan before my return.

I hope each reader who is a Father has a tremendous day. I also hope each of you reaches out to your Father by phone, email, or text, thanking them for the sacrifices they’ve made to raise and support you.

Dads are the best.

See you tomorrow…

Daily Ramblings – Daily Quote

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Brother, Dad, family, Love, Mom, Sister

Today’s Quote:

“The most important thing in the world is family and love.” – John Wooden

There are some quotes that do not need an explanation. I have been blessed by a family that always does its best to take care of one another. My brother and sister have taken care of me, and I, them. My Mom and Dad raised us and gave us the best life they could. Today, I am doing my best to return the things they gave us, now that they are in their Golden Years. I cherish every day I have with my Mom and Dad.

I hope everyone has a great Saturday!

See you tomorrow…